CONFESSION TIME!
I recently had to disassociate from a very close family member... Why? Well our relationship I realized was extremely one sided... I truly believe that no matter who you are or what age you should only surround yourself with people who are equally invested into a relationship with you. The moment your relationship with another human being becomes to feel like a chore I believe you should create some space. NO I am not saying to leave when you two have problems or break off a friendship because of a misunderstanding. On the contrary those things come to only strengthen and build thicker bonds. I am saying to leave a unhealthy relationship that: 1. Forces you to preform 2. If you cannot be your true self 3. When you are made out to be the constant villain. There are plenty more things that I can list about when and why you should exist a friendship/relationship etc. but I think y'all get it. I will leave y'all with a poem I wrote recently about relationships and convenience and I hope y'all dig it. "How Convenient" How convenient it is for you to love me when you want to To engage in a relationship that you halfheartedly pursue. How convenient for you. No need to invest your assets 'Or figure out how to love me best. No see, now for you...that would be too inconvenient. As always, lovelies Thanks for reading!!! Peace & Blessings, <3 Nándi
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CONFESSION TIME!
Positive Patty (my ever present personality trait personified) has been in the dumps lately. (i.e. I've been down & out) Howwwwww did I let this happen again and allow myself and the blog to fall by the wayside? Well tbh I fell out of step with God. I allowed my worries, cares and fears to drive me instead of an unadulterated pursuit of God's presence. In 3rd John Chapter three verse two it says "Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers." 3 John 1:2 (NKJV) I honestly believe that when your soul prospers first then we overall prosper in every area of your life follows suit. I needed time to regroup after a hard academic year. I mean I prospered academically but baby ...... spiritually I felt like I was stagnant. All in all Positive Patty is back in full effect and I can only say it is because of the power of prayer that she's back. Relationship is really all about communication. So if you feel like your connection is getting lost with God, hit him up one time for the one time. I am pretty certain He's been waiting to hear from you. Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessings, <3 Nándi Confession Time: Being passionate costs you everything. I had no idea how much of my passion I had hidden because I was afraid of failing but when I really actually started to try to be the best at school, in work, in personal pursuits, My life became more rewarding. The hard work I had put into my own mini dreams had pushed me to pursue even bigger ones. Yes I am still afraid that I will fail but I no longer allow that fear to control me. I hope you don't either too. Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessings, <3 Nándi |
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