CONFESSION TIME!
I recently had to disassociate from a very close family member... Why? Well our relationship I realized was extremely one sided... I truly believe that no matter who you are or what age you should only surround yourself with people who are equally invested into a relationship with you. The moment your relationship with another human being becomes to feel like a chore I believe you should create some space. NO I am not saying to leave when you two have problems or break off a friendship because of a misunderstanding. On the contrary those things come to only strengthen and build thicker bonds. I am saying to leave a unhealthy relationship that: 1. Forces you to preform 2. If you cannot be your true self 3. When you are made out to be the constant villain. There are plenty more things that I can list about when and why you should exist a friendship/relationship etc. but I think y'all get it. I will leave y'all with a poem I wrote recently about relationships and convenience and I hope y'all dig it. "How Convenient" How convenient it is for you to love me when you want to To engage in a relationship that you halfheartedly pursue. How convenient for you. No need to invest your assets 'Or figure out how to love me best. No see, now for you...that would be too inconvenient. As always, lovelies Thanks for reading!!! Peace & Blessings, <3 Nándi
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