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Can I be Candid?
it's been a minute but I know y'all have been holding it down for me and more importantly for yourselves! Here's what I know that I hope you guys do to, ACCEPTANCE is key. Once you accept your single season (because it is just that sugar boo's God DOES has someone set aside for you) You will enjoy yourself a whole lot more because you won't be anxious and worried about something that is already taken care of. One scripture that helps me in the wait is found in the book of Hebrews. Hebrews 12:2 (NKJV) "looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God." Jesus didn't enjoy the Cross but he endured it to give us exactly what He promised. Although the wait in this period pales in comparison to Jesus's will to die for all of humanity I think it could be applied to the waiting period as a single person too. While you might not enjoy the process of waiting, it's the preparation you NEED before you and your husband meet. Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessings, <3 Nándi
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My promise ring signifies the devotion of my entire life mind body and soul to God before I meet my husband. When I started out on this journey though I had super shallow reasons for wanting to remain a virgin until marriage.
Yeah I knew it was a sin to have sex before marriage, however I honestly just did not want to be talked about by guys maliciously so I decided that NO guy would be able to talk about me recklessly if they never got to have sex with me. Needless to say this reason to wait did not keep me from falling into some sexual immorality. But as I drew closer to God and became to understand His reason for waiting. I stopped compromising my standards for purity. I realized that I no longer cared about what anyone had to say about why I was waiting for sex. My motivation now was to honor God, not man. Sure one day I hope I am able to be married and bust it open for my husband but until that day sexless and satisfied I will remain. Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessings, <3 Nándi |
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