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Can I be candid? (pun intended)
God slightly annoyed me. He was so right ALL of the time that when I was wrong I tended to blame Him to make myself feel better. ESPECIALLY when it came to my failed romantic "relationships." Bitterly I would ask God with through tear stained lips and regret filled eyes why He would allow someone to come into my life who would hurt me? Eventually I realized that God was not to blame, I was and I soon figured out why. 1. I never consulted God on who I should and should not allow to take me on dates. 2. I never consulted God about who should have my number to contact me regularly. Moral of the story is I never consulted God period. I was calling all the shots and doing so unsuccessfully, but I still blamed God for the aftermath. What I understand now that I did not comprehend back then was that God is a gentleman. He was not going to force me to follow His way of living out my singleness. Now that I know better, I am finally embracing waiting on God's cue and direction and not relying on my own intuition. I may not know what God has in store for me, but I know that I cannot lose when God is a part of the equation. Thanks for reading lovelies, Peace & Blessings, <3 Nándi
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![]() Lovelies, Enjoy YOU!!!! I spent a lot of valuable "me time" filling it with guys that I really had no business with. I entertained them because I wanted the companionship of a male. But I did not stop to think about whether the time I spent with them was genuine. These days baby girl has learned her lesson and isn't settling anymore. I would rather enjoy myself and my own company than settle for false companionship. I encourage you to do the same. Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessings <3 Nándi I started this blog for the following reasons & people:
1.) For my sisters who don't realize how bomb they are and that they are worth waiting for. 2.) For my sisters who feel like they are alone in the struggle to remain celibate or abstinent. I hope you all are encouraged by the content in this blog and understand that you are worth waiting for. Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessings <3 Nándi Can I be real with y'all?
Being single was not something I appreciated until recently. Honestly, I viewed being single as a burden and I was annoyed by the wait. However, God revealed to me that He had intentionally gifted me with this time to completely focus on myself, not as some cruel form of torture, but to better myself for a healthy relationship in the future. So lovelies if you have struggled like I have with realizing the benefits of being single then hear me when I say that it really is a gift! Pamper yourself, enjoy your own company, heal, grow and thrive on your own while you wait on God to send you your man. You won't regret it! Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessings <3 Nándi |
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