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Can I be Candid? I didn't have sex yet because honestly I have heard so many negative stories from girls bout how painful the first time can be. I CAN'T STAND PHYSICAL PAIN! If I can avoid it I will. I also did not like the idea of having a guy being so intimate with me that he is allowed to collab with me in my most sacred space *whispers* (my Va-jay) Anywaysssss, as I got older I had some other things that I thought would be okay to share with you. Below are some of my own thoughts, concerns and questions I have surrounding sex. 1. I'M NOT FAKING IT. I have heard plenty of girls tell me they did not like what their partner did or what was going on but they acted like it just to appease their mans' ego... NOT I said the duck. I refuse to put up with sub par satisfaction and reward a man with an abundance of moans and false compliments. 2. I HOPE I don't have to fake it for my husband. Honestly one of the other reasons why I waited so long is because I don't want to embark on a sexual exploration that intimate with a man who isn't fully committed to me. & yeah i know i know i hear the cynical people in the back reading this blog like "niggas get divorced errr day B" *Rico voice* BUT IDC AS FOR ME AND MY FUTURE HOUSEHOLD IT AIN'T HAPPENIN'!
3. Is It NECESSARY to have sex right after the wedding? 4. Will it fit all the way in the first time? 5. Do I need to do tricks the first time? 6. Are there sex classes for virgins? 7. How can I apply to those classes? 8. How can I apply to those classes without my mom knowing? & while there are plenty of other thoughts and questions about the first time I will save them for a later time and professional. & please feel free to share some of your first time fears below. Thanks for reading lovelies! Peace & Blessing, <3 Nándi
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